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Response Card Wording for Wedding

Sheetal Mandora
Even though the response card, or the RSVP card, may seem small, it definitely needs a bit of spice for the wordings. Read the story for ways to make your invitation stand out.
With the help of the response cards, you can arrange the guest seating chart, plan the menu, communicate with the caterer, and organize your budget. Once the menu is designed, you will have to inform the caterer about how many guests are going to be attending the rehearsal dinner and wedding reception dinner.
Which is why the need for the cards is so essential. Here are some sample wordings to keep the event flowing as smoothly as possible.

Verse #1

We look forward to
celebrating with you. 
Please reply by (Date)
(Guest Name)
____ accepts _____ regrets

Verse #2

The courtesy of a reply is requested by
(RSVP Date)
(Guest Name) accept ___ decline ___
Menu Selection (please indicate number of each):
Beef___ Chicken___ Fish___

Verse #3

We have reserved two seats in your honor.
(Guest Name)
___ Accept w/ pleasure
___ Decline w/ regret
Please respond by (RSVP Date)

Verse #4

Please take a moment to fill in the blanks:
_____________ is/are ____________ to attend
(Guest Name) (able/unable)
There are
______ people in our posse.
Kindly mail by (RSVP Date)

Verse #5

The favor of a reply is requested on or before
(RSVP date)
(Guest Name) will attend ___ will not attend ___
(Guest Name) will attend ___ will not attend ___
Additional Wedding Events
Rehearsal dinner: will attend ___ will not attend ___
Post-wedding luncheon: will attend ___ will not attend ___

Verse #6

The favor of a reply
is requested on or before
(RSVP Date)
Name ____________________
Number attending __________
Sorry, unable to attend _______

Verse #7

The favor of a reply is requested
Please respond by
(RSVP Date)
(Guest Name)
will _____________
# of guests ____

Verse #8

The favor of a reply is requested by (RSVP Date)
(Guest Name)
# of guests _______
______ Yes, I / we will be attending the ceremony and reception.
______ No, but will be thinking of you.

Verse #9

The courtesy of a reply is requested by
(RSVP Date)
(Guest Name)
Please indicate number of each
Beef___ Chicken___ Fish___
___ Rehearsal Dinner ___ attend ___ will not attend
___ Reception Dinner ___ attend ___ will not attend

Verse #10

Please reply on or before
(RSVP Date)
(Guest Name)
___ Persons will attend
___ Filet Mignon ____Chicken Tetrazzini
___ Children's Meal
As you can see, there isn't any "right" way of putting the wordings. Only different styles in which you can get the information that you seek from the guests. When the wedding is a formal affair with family, friends, and colleagues, these wordings will surely find a way to fit in.